I had a problem with transference with a group t, I started wanting to see him like a dad, which then turned into a crush, but he didn't know my fèelings, I told t2, and she automatically pulled me from the group, it was a ptsd, group, she said it was in my best interest, my group t found out, I never got closure, or was able to work through that transference with him.
It's difficult so I know what you are going through.