Thank you everyone for your replies - I really appreciate it!

I think I am going to have to talk to my T about my fear of termination and all that stuff. I have spoken to her about it a little bit before but I have never asked her what her reasons would be for terminating a client. I don't think I'm ready to discuss the whole FB thing. Maybe sometime in the future or maybe not. I'm trying really hard to stop looking at her FB profile but it's hard and I haven't been very successful so far.