I don't know....I only feel bleh when I try to invade an Others essense to "feel" them. Sometimes I've noticed (or the guys do) that like I Susie has been out awhile, then when they take over, my ways linger on with them ...like imprinted or something...IDK....and they got to shake it off to assume total control.

Being co-present is much a very seperated thing, but conscious control can switch back and forth between us...or not.

But blending and feeling each others essence....that's a whole new thing to me...and yes it would make me feel sick, too...I can imagine. Just even thinking about it is driving my anxiety levels up.

Maybe you are integrating? Good luck!