Sometimes you can only go so far with a particular t. If you feel you are in a placethat's comfortable for you, then maybe a complete break from therapy will work. If, however, you feel like there's still stuff that needs addressing, maybe finding another t would be a good option?

I would be bothered by a focus on something that wasn't my own focus. Even when t wants to address something she finds pressing, if I don't agree with that path, we follow what I'd want to cover instead. I think I'd be equally bothered by having to meet weekly goals. Therapy would begin to feel like a chore, at which point it would no longer be useful to me.