I have been seeing this girl for the last six months. I only realized she had an eating disorder when I saw her in her bathing suit and pictures from her past. I love her so much, but being with her is so confusing. it is like being with two different people. She has her warm loving side that really wants to help herself get better, but she will also swap over to the coldest most closed up person in a matter of seconds. She knows she has a problem, but she doesn't know what to do herself, the more I try to help the more it feels to me like I am just messing her up even more. I don't know what I would do without her, but being with her is putting so much strain on me mentally and also on our relationship. Should I stick around, is my being there helping her and making a difference? Should I just go and leave her... i really don't know what to do, PLZ HELP