Hi Ovid,

I'm a little confused about what you consider personal stuff.
I know some things about my T also. Actually I know a fair amount. And we know some people in common. But I consider him my T first. I definitely would not be happy if I felt like our relationship was a friendship first, it would be too weird.

If you feel so close to her, can't you just ask her about this? Can't you tell her you feel like the therapeutic relationship has been affected by her disclosures? At least if you feel the need to change, you will be able to resolve this.