Hi lonesome,I can't take the pole because I am on my mobile. I would be very upset at my t if she had stepped out because somebody rang twice. It is prioritising somebody else over you and it isn't staying in the present with the client who is actually paying for your time.
I would have to say it to her. I really hope you do bring it up with him. How might he respond?
On our last session ( the one where my t went psycho) t answered the door in her apron, I could hear there were a lot of young voices in her kitchen, she showed me to the room and then apologised because she was running late with dinner, she asked if I could wait a moment till she finished. This has become a habit of hers but it really upset me because I could hear them all talking and laughing and I was alone in distress, she was putting them before me and it really hurt. Often people have been around her house, I can hear voices and once or twice people have walked into our room or the doorbell has rang and she answered. She is always distracted. I don't know why it's so hard for her to understand but she doesn't I have said it over and over but nothing changes. She apologises and next week same thing happens.