Well I'd be nervous skyping/video chatting with people I barely know. I do it a lot because I have bunch of family overseas and my daughter lives far but certainly wouldn't skype with a guy I don't know. You are putting way too much pressure on men you just meet. After 4 dates you act as you are in a committed relationship and even equate your situation with these strangers to our interactions with loved ones. That's not the same. You'll scare people way acting so clingy. Just my opinion