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Originally Posted by elevatedsoul
how long were you all married?
i cant imagine having a full time job and trying to deal with things...
much less a family and all..
so i think you are awesome
i cant work personally because of stuff... even though i would like to, wish i could, and stuff... make me feel more like a man if i could, but its one of those things i guess 
one day we all hope to reach the point of acceptance both inward and outward <3
you guys are awesome |
Thanks- having a full time job is helping hold us together....we aren't sitting around thinking about this all the time, more like a distraction that pays.
The over all system feel is acceptance....some more than others or not so munch...but we are getting used to it.
Sure we are constantly reminded moment to moment, but it enforces co-operation.
The type of job makes a difference. I'm a carpenter in an old apartment complex, so they give me keys, van, and a to do list. I work by myself alone all day- if it weren't for this I couldn't handle it. Me and my radio to drown out the head chatter
When I wasn't working, we were driving ourselves crazy.
It's been an 8 year partnership, in which we split all the bills....it was more like I married a roommate. :/
I just have to hold my breath for a year and hopefully stir no waves. Funny how fast a year flies by...with all the blank spaces in between.