31 years huh, well not exactly newly weds there.

I'm going on 35 and I have some female aquaintences and that is all they are. I wouldn't be walking around holding hands with a female in front of my wife, that's for damn sure, if everything was ok. He was subtily telling you that you have a problem. You guys need to talk, and most ricky tick, if not sooner.

Everone needs someone to talk to and it is nice to have the other sex' point of view. Sometimes we can't talk to each other frankly and that is ok but, holding her hand in front of you is not cool. It is a slap in the face. The broad has a lot of gall do do such a thing, what kind of slut is she?
If it is an affair then they are a brazen pair of birds, they are.