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Originally Posted by justafriend306
If it turns out you do find your identity expressend with men, why force yoursefl to be something else?
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It makes sense, but in my case I'm afraid that such relationships might end up the same way as my dreams - very soon I won't get satisfied with the partner I have and I will search for the next "victim". Also I have strong tendency to being a dependent personality in which case being with someone like my dream men would mean getting deeper into being dependent and less mature. Like it or not, someday I won't have my parents nearby and I'll have to deal with my life myself instead of putting the weight on someone else's shoulders.