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Old Sep 19, 2016, 02:34 PM
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Originally Posted by lunafay View Post
We kept on getting into fights whenever we would get into contact with each other. It would cause a lot of heart ache for me. I kept trying to be his friend for my son's sake but it would always end badly. So I made the decision after crying for 12 hours straight after a fight that it was time to cut off contact
It truly stinks when exes proceed with the notion in their mind that it's ok to continue on with toxic behavior. My ex was a nightmare for the longest.

It took a variety of turns of events, some counseling on both ends, him with some court fines and anger management and probation and his surrounding himself with a better circle of friends that I'm mutually tied to via my work along with a remaining no abuse clause that has made a difference in interactions between him and I.

You took an important step for your own wellbeing.