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Originally Posted by lunafay
We kept on getting into fights whenever we would get into contact with each other. It would cause a lot of heart ache for me. I kept trying to be his friend for my son's sake but it would always end badly. So I made the decision after crying for 12 hours straight after a fight that it was time to cut off contact
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It truly stinks when exes proceed with the notion in their mind that it's ok to continue on with toxic behavior. My ex was a nightmare for the longest.
It took a variety of turns of events, some counseling on both ends, him with some court fines and anger management and probation and his surrounding himself with a better circle of friends that I'm mutually tied to via my work along with a remaining no abuse clause that has made a difference in interactions between him and I.
You took an important step for your own wellbeing.