I want to be clear that I never said Broken shouldn't ever have a baby, but rather, that she shouldn't have a baby now, when she clearly isn't ready financially, or relationship wise. She needs to realize that being in a relationship means taking both parties wishes and needs into consideration when deciding on something as huge as having a baby. Pushing the S/O into having a baby when the they clearly want to wait to have one just because impatience is rather selfish, IMHO. Especially when they are already clearing undertaking the stressful job of planning a wedding. It's just simply too much to ask of a partner.

She honestly also needs to talk about this with a therapist to get to the bottom of why she is desperately wanting a child right now so much she is downright obsessing over the idea and creating this huge fissure in her relationship.

Remember, it takes two to make a baby, not one.