so, I was at my X's yesterday to pick up my dogs. I do NOT miss being married to my X. But there are things I do miss about being married. living in a nice home, getting a new car, going on vacations to nice places. My X makes a very good living. If only money was enough! However, what I learned years ago was...money and stuff can't kiss you, hug you, have sex with you in a friendly manner, talk to you about your hopes and dreams, laugh and joke with you or even be there when you are in a bad place and reassure you that things will be ok. and my X didn't do those things either. getting the opportunity to find real love and physical satisfaction were more important to me than the 'stuff'. but I would like to go on vacation!
eh...just doing a lot of thinking these days.