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Originally Posted by AbsurdBlackBear
Yelling and anger definitely stresses me out as well very much so. I don't think it something that should be taken lightly. As justafriend306 said, definitely it is an abusive situation, and the fact that afterwards he tries to make you feel bad about being stressed about it raises even more red flags about the abuse.
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It just really bugs me that he gets so angry and then he can't understand the effect it has on others and how they react to it. Also, he is probably the most selfish person I have ever met in my entire life! The air conditioner has to be on 77 or he complains about it being too hot in the house (even the kids complain about being too cold, so I know it is not just me). He gets to choose what to watch on TV (if I pick something he doesn't want to watch, he acts like a child and gets up and walks away yelling about how he's NOT going to watch THAT - like a 2-year-old). He hogs the couch (I get about 1/2 of a cushion of space to scrunch up into - my back and legs are in constant pain because of it - and he gets the rest of the couch to lounge on because he "worked all day" - well so did I, so WHATEVER!!). Sorry.... Just had to vent. He's made sure I have no friends and no one to talk to about anything that's bothering me and he sure won't listen when I try to talk to him about stuff....