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Originally Posted by lolagrace
I don't think anyone here said she shouldn't ever have children. However, she does need to be in a better place emotionally and financially, particularly to a place where having a child isn't considered a "fix" for what is wrong in her life. She also needs to get to a place in her relationship where they are both on the same page about having children.
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I understand what you're saying-and in this case she did ask for opinions-I just feel like, to me, this is a personal decision and only she will know when it's right....I did tell her that she would have to choose between the 2 because it is her fiance's choice as well. I personally don't consider either's position "right" or "wrong", they just want different things at the moment.