How do you deal with someone that is supposed to care for you. Your own wife not respect your feelings? I mean if you feel a certain way about something no one has the right to tell you, you are not allowed to feel that way and if you do you are weird. Gosh I am so heart broken I can't deal with this relationship no matter how badly I want it, she just has no respect for my feelings. Telling me I am not allowed to feel so. That is who I am and if there is a problem you comfort me or talk to me don't tell me I can't feel that way. You supposed to be my wife. I can't deal I am going to break completely and I am already on the edge. I know that no matter how badly I do want the relationship it just won't work if she does not respect me ory feelings.