I'm not sure exactly what you mean. If you mean that he seems to show up in different people in your life (i.e. their traits) then that's conditioning he did to you. You're familiar with a certain kind of person and at a very young age, therefore you are conditioned to a certain way of life. If you mean that he himself keeps coming back and acting like he's changed or something; I think he's playing with you like a chew toy.

Either way, I'll be thinking about you today. Keep hanging in there Fuzzy.