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Originally Posted by Harmacy
(...) Now it's got to the stage where it's more about how I protect myself than the rights or wrongs of the situation. I just want to live my life without feeling as if I'm being manipulated into situations I find extremely draining and damaging to my mental health. I know that's my right.
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The relationship between me and my brother, or whatever relationship I once thought existed, has collapsed since the death of our parents (and yet, incredibly, he still demands that I go through the motions of 'being an uncle' to his two young children, as the sole representative of his side of the family, while his wife still has both her parents and two brothers). Whatever, but I know that all that you have described must have been deeply painful for you. My survival strategy has been to expect and receive nothing from him, and to avoid contact that would hurt or trigger me. I don't know if this is practically possible or reasonable in your situation, but I think I know what you're going through and I know how much it hurts.