hi!, yes you can heal...but know this,your previous "normal" life is what brought you here...A friend of mine once said to me "I don't see it as a breakdown,I see it as a break through"...and I think thats the attitude you must have. Its jus your belief systym telling you that you've outgrown it or that there are some changes that need to be made in order for you to"grow" do you want this? or does being sad or upset what you want? you decide, the help is there/here/everywhere...choose wisely