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Originally Posted by Abby
Thanks for this. I'm aware that I don't have the issues that others may have on this sub-forum but this is something I've really been wanting tips/advice on too. I seem to spend at least 2-3 days a week unable to function due to depression or similar and when I'm 'back on it's, I'm left frantically having to catch up all the time I've lost. It does mean a lot of things don't get done despite externally being able to look put together to the outside world.
Thank you for talking about processing time. I've often known I need lots of time alone not really doing much but trying to 'come down' from over-stimulation. If I go to work and then go out in the evening for a few hours, I'll manage it but it'll throw me off for the rest of the week, or at least some pt that week. I want a way of reducing the need for this time out or protecting myself from some of the stimulation that comes from being around other people. I'm unsure if its a dissociative thing or simply because I'm extremely sensitive to lights, sounds, people's moods, etc. so being with people is enjoyable but hurts a bit too. I guess that's not processing and I'm worried it won't go away in time, it may just be the way I'm wired.
I'm trying to create a daily routine that has a general outline of what needs to be done, rather than letting one merge into the other. I guess perhaps it's about being aware of your limits, what causes an issue. So I'm realising more and more that although I enjoy time with people, it also can overwhelm me so I actually need to plan that in rather than thinking I can cope. But a protection is also a good idea...
Any ideas and tips are welcomed from me too. Thanks for this thread!!
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I find too, that I am drained by being around too many people for too long, and I am also very edgy around too much noise and too much input makes me very confused. I don't know that I pick up on people's moods, as much as wearing myself out trying to "radar" them. You know, watching for signs of anger, stress, irritation, etc. If it gets to be too much, I do dissociate to a certain level. I don't spend much time around other people anymore. I feel like that's not a good thing, but I'm having trouble figuring out what to do.
A daily routine sounds like a great idea. Maybe that might help me also. It has crossed my mind before, but I haven't actually thought it through.
Thank you for that idea!!