I agree that the key to your questions was "concern/worry" and he gave you an answer based on your question. His answer might have been different if you had asked "Do I ever pop into your mind during the week?" My own kids pop into my mind occasionally during the day (not really all that often), but I don't spend any time worrying about them unless, like you T said with clients who are in danger, something very particular is going on that warrants my being worried about them. The fact that I don't spend time worrying about them is no indication about how much I care about them though.
Sorry you are feeling badly.
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