Lola, so sorry to hear about all of this! I know that I would be devastated if my T said that she never thinks of me! I do agree with the others that there's a difference between caring and worrying and he obviously cares about you or he would not have made that super generous offer! Also, if he didn't like working with you, he wouldn't suggest increasing the amount of sessions, he'd be trying to spread them out a little more.

The only other thing that I can think of is that he knows that you're concerned over your attachment to him so maybe he is trying to model to you behavior that would indicate a lack of attachment such as saying that he doesn't think of you. Either way, it's extremely hurtful and I really think that he needs to further explain and apologize in your next session.

((((((((LOLA)))))))))