i know i haven't been on here. but i have been haveing a really hard time, i don't know if i want to see my T any more, i feel i have to be there for her,but how about her being there for me, i'm scared that if i stop seeing her,she wont pay the paymeant on the $ i let her have,am i giveing up on her or me ? i need help with this,can any one help please