It was with my ex, She ended out relationship several months ago, she we still have communication on and off, but she is still very cold and selfish, an self absorbed, she never communicated to me that there were any problems or she was having any problems, but suddenly came up and decided she wanted to split up, all she said was we had grown apart..

At first I tried to place the blame on her for everything, but then I started to do some major soul searching and went though a self help/improvement course and discovered A LOT about myself and A LOT about the relationship that I had done to cause her to come to the decisions she had made, I had just started to take her for granted, I myself didnt communicated with her the way I should due to past communication problems for me growing up, I wasn't sympathetic to problems she was having due to stress in a past job, in a nut shell, its just all around being disrespectful to her....but through my course and realization I learned all this and I explained it to her and I whole heartedly apologized to her...but she didnt even seem to want to entertain the apology.