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Old Sep 22, 2016, 09:25 AM
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We do that. If it looks good then it is good. We had onne lady one time who say how you know how she doin by lookin at her stairs. If stairs was clean so was her head. We got cleanin probs tho cuz our mom was a real neat freak. We cant balance no checkbook so we use a credit card cuz they send you letters that tell you what you buy and how much mney you got. Then we send them money from a bank acount. Checkbook sounds hard cuz you gotta do that everyday all the time if you spendin money and if one person make a oops then we all messed up. I like better chores you can do one time then its ok if you dont do it everyday. I got a hard time thinkin not doin stuff is ok cuz to me its doin nothin even tho i know it aint nothin thats goin on. Its important stuff thats goin on.

For me cuz of mom talk i gotta do some thing everyday or im the mess. But i cant do every thing or then im a mess. I gotta pace myself and think real and thats hard cuz i get worked up and think on all i aint doin and all i supposta be doin and thats overwhelming. What i do is a thinnk ok im gonna earn my time. So what i do is pick one chore that is kiinda easy and do it then i can do what i want next. Maybe my chore is eat breakfast maybe its clean a baseboard. Then i feel better bout not doin nothin later cuz i already did one chore. We gotta think boout chores and say gettin dressed a chore eatin foods a chore brushin teeth is a chore. That helps me know im bein productive plus sometimes we forget to do them things so it really is a real for real chore not a fake one. im still wearin monkey pjs. Lulz. Maybe i better get dressed. Veda thinks doin nothin is a chore. She call it decompres time. She do that every night thats important to her like baseboards important to me. She make time just for that everyday.
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(dx list: DID/PTSD, ASD, GAD, OCD, LMNOP)