I don't think I would do well having a relationship with someone I met on a forum, especially one like this....too easy to read into things posted, and too constricting for me in posting...
I prefer my relationships to be from the non-cyber world. It takes a long time to feel comfortable enough with someone to allow them to express themselves without making a judgement or taking it personally.
I am reminded of an old event. I will write things down, and once wrote something when I was feeling unable to love...normally, out of habit, I would burn such an item rather than risk it being found (at the time by my husband of many years)...convincing myself this was stupid & no one would be digging through trash for things, I crumpled the paper and tossed it in the wood stove...
sure enough, he fished it out and felt terribly hurt...
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/ the bones of that word mend slowly...' marie harris
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