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Originally Posted by winter4me
I don't think I would do well having a relationship with someone I met on a forum, especially one like this....too easy to read into things posted, and too constricting for me in posting...
I prefer my relationships to be from the non-cyber world. It takes a long time to feel comfortable enough with someone to allow them to express themselves without making a judgement or taking it personally.
I am reminded of an old event. I will write things down, and once wrote something when I was feeling unable to love...normally, out of habit, I would burn such an item rather than risk it being found (at the time by my husband of many years)...convincing myself this was stupid & no one would be digging through trash for things, I crumpled the paper and tossed it in the wood stove...
sure enough, he fished it out and felt terribly hurt...
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That's it, he says I take things personally and twist everything he says when he doesn't mean anything by it. He asked me how I would feel if someone kept telling them they wanted a relationship when they weren't interested. I told him I'd be flattered. But he obviously finds me annoying. But yes forum posts can be read into, I am glad he's not on this one as I posted something yesterday that was a bit of a reference to him. I do read into his posts but we had an honest conversation the other day where he gave the impression I was harassing him. But now he has texted me back. I don't know why he does that if I'm a nuisance. I might just put that I'm alright, thank you for asking and leave it at that. I can't get into conversation though, I need to make it as short as possible.
