I had to respond to this as someone who is not a fan of social media (I just have a different perspective for you to consider...I have no idea what the other person is thinking. So, fwiw)

Social media is turning people into slightly angry stalkers who are a little narcissistic. Just my opinion.

I read so much of how people get upset because such and such "unfriended" them. Or didn't "like" something. Or know another person is online but are not answering. Or they text a person and that person fails to text back in a timely manner.

I totally understand that this is the age of instant gratification....but that isn't a good thing in my opinion.

For me, my phone is for my convenience. Because it's MY phone. I don't feel the need to mollify anybody for that if they get annoyed.

My point (that I'm probably making poorly) is that you are making yourself annoyed with this...they are not doing it to annoy you. So it's more your perception that you might want to adjust a little so that this whole thing doesn't keep feeling like it's about you.

Maybe it's not.