It still sounds like you're looking for a reason to leave this T.

But... I also wouldn't like too much disclosure. A little is fine. I'd like to know she has a life outside her job. But I want/need her to remain the professional. For me, it's mostly due to my attachment. The less I know the better.

However, if I put my attachment issues aside, there's not a much a person can say to me that would make me judge them negatively. But... I saw one T btwn ex-T and current T for two weeks. She was talking to me about her hs reunion she was going to (I don't know why). She was bragging about how good she looks compared to her classmates and how she wanted to show off. That turned me off real quick. I told her she was being judgmental in my termination email.

So I guess I can understand.