In the past I thought it could be because of a lack of experience, but lately I have been hanging around more girls (at work mostly) but things are not getting better. I find that I just never have anything to say. What ends up happening is that I frantically search for something to say and say something stupid or weird. Either that or I stay quiet and come off as boring. Tomorrow I am going to run into the girl at the gym who added me on facebook, and I will end up talking to her. I desperately need last minute advice on how to not mess this up. What do I do if nothing comes to mind? Do I just not keep quiet and not converse with her? How can I come up with things to say without being awkward or stupid?