So I have been trying to step up a lot for my mother to relax. I have been doing more around the house in the hopes that our relationship improves and that she finally starts trusting me to make my own decisions without her guidance. I cleaned up in the kitchen today washing all my cups and plates, putting my food in the container and putting things back in the fridge. Cleaned the table and kitchen counters, went outside and shaked the crumbs out of the rug. I told her to look to see what I did in the kitchen she smiled and said good job. Then unlike every other day she for once didn't scream at all be.cause she didn't need too and my hopes is that it can be this way everyday. Where I don't get yelled at because I already cleaned my mess.