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Old Sep 22, 2016, 11:58 PM
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I've mentioned this in other posts, but my T1 who've I've been working with for 3 years is moving out of state at the end of October. I have 2 more sessions with him plus a transfer session with him and the new T the last week. He brings it up every session now to let me know how many sessions we have left. Today I started bawling right at the end of our time because of thinking about transferring. It's so hard for me to open up to new people and to let them in, and I'm feeling abandoned by him leaving me during this time when things are extremely difficult for me. He's been trying to assure me that it'll take time and I'll be fine and he thinks I'll get along with the new T but I'm still worried and anxious. He's been such a great T, and picks up on my subtle facial expressions or fiddling. He says he's going to rip off the bandaid in our transfer session and do the talking about everything I've been dealing with to help me open up. How do I let this new T know what I need and how to read me? Do I just see how she does and what she picks up or do I say I laugh when I'm nervous, I fidget to try not to cry, etc? I'm practically in tears just thinking of it.
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