Hmm good question. I definitely do not want friendship or anything other than a strictly boundaried professional relationship. I don't want rigid, but I definitely want T to err on the side of formality, even though I am a very casual person everywhere else in my life. I feel
like a bit of a therapy freak, really: while everyone else seems to want more closeness and looser boundaries & more friendliness, I just worked up the courage to talk with T about wanting less. It's too scary for me.