Hmm, another really good question.
I think I want t to be accepting, reliable, consistent, trustworthy, able to help me challenge things that are troubling, professionally available, open to new ideas, respectful.(of me, of where I'm at in the moment, what I ask, what I bring, personal space, etc), genuine, will listen and allow me to feel heard, maintain the boundaries I ask for and she feels comfortable with, tolerate me while I learn things I should have learned decades ago, and a gentle nudge away from t once I no longer need it as much... Pretty much the way things are going in t with this t at the moment. I guess the only other thing I would want from t is help in building additional (therapeutic) supports when things get scary on my end. I know t is not perfect, and I don't expect it to be, but I'm mostly comfortable with how we work.