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Originally Posted by therapyishelping777
Could it be, the closer you get to her, the more intimate, the subconscience is resisting that and wanting to fight it. ? When we get closer to people we see their negative , unidealized parts.. Everyone has good and bad.. maybe its pushing through to another level of the relationship therapeutically that is challenging you.? just thoughts?
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You may well be on to something there, thanks so much. Those are great points to consider. I'll put it across this way to T when I see her.
I was in the thick of maternal attachment and wanted her to desperately be my mother. I've come through that now and I realise I need her more as my T than anything else right now. Maybe this is where, as you mention, about pushing through to another level of the therapeutic relationship.