I would think less of my T for the obvious things like cruelty to people or animals, or if she committed a crime or was dishonest. Also if she were a totally different person in real life.

I do think less of her because her morality is different from mine. Since most of society believes like she does, not like I do, I have to accept it. I am old-fashioned so it bothers me that T had no objections to her daughters living with their boyfriends, and she herself may be doing that. I believe in marriage first.

I also thought less of her because she got divorced. Not because divorce is wrong, but because I used to think professional Ts would know how to stay in a marriage. I've learned otherwise, and looking back, most of my former T's were divorced.