This is a good thread, thank you Atisketasket. I know a therapist whose client leaves his socks in the room after every session. I used to use the room after her and after finding socks a few times I suspected that she had a foot fetish but she denied it, the jury is still out on this one.
I learnt that my t is kind to all of her friends but not so kind to her clients and supervisee's.
I spoke to another therapist this week and my t is her supervisor and she is terminating t because she feels they are not working well together so I learnt my t is behaving like this with everyone in a professional context. I learnt that I take her behaviour personally.