Yeah, my oldest & once upon a time best friend's life is too busy for me. I tried to believe it for a long time. I mean, she has kids, a husband, lots & lots of friends & acquaintances, & a full time job, so she could only squeeze me in on a work lunch break. When she offered this, it just hit me. That's exactly how much she values me now, half an hour at most for who knows how long again, just another acquaintance at best, not valuable enough to spend any significant time with. Because you're right, people make the time if they want to. Great, now I have a headache from crying. I'm sorry your friend treated you this way. I wish they would just tell us when it's over.