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Originally Posted by lolagrace
Or perhaps there is something else going on that they just don't feel comfortable sharing. We don't always know what is going on is someone's private life.
Or perhaps they are concerned you will get angry if they tell you the truth. Kind of damned if they do or damned if they don't.
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No. I simply don't accept your answer. Of course if you tell someone you're too busy to call them back via email, the recipient (me, in this case) will respond angry. That's common sense. Anyone would be upset in my situation. Waiting 6 weeks to email me back to tell me she's too busy to call me back, and then too busy over the weekend to call me back; yet she spends a LOT of time on Facebook. Either she doesn't realize I can see her when she's online, or she doesn't care that I know she is online when I am.
If you really believe it's ok to blow someone off with the "too busy" excuse, then that tells me you must use it a lot with people as an excuse.
No one is too busy to be a good friend. Like I said in my original post, we all share 24 hours in a day, and we all fill those 24 hours with something. To use the "busy" excuse, is to send the other person the message, "your time isn't as important as my time."
So, you'll have to convince me that "too busy" isn't a lame excuse. Because I'm convinced that it is.