Teddy said some good stuff there.

I didn't even realise that a person's favourite colour can change before I met my T. I thought that once you had chosen it as an adult it helped to define you. Only today did I learn that we don't all know how we are feeling until we think about it. I thought other people knew exactly, straight away, and could answer when asked. I didn't know that I could tell someone that i was angry with them without the world caving in or them running a mile or violently attacking me. My T teaches me the little things like that, things that my parents should have taught me.