anyone have crohn's?

If so what helps you?
My sister had a bad attack with it this time and is in hospital. all her labs are low now and pain meds aren't helping eather. colon ostmy this week to see if she will need sugery ,They are talking about Remcade ,But I looked that up and the side effacts and could cause cancer ,I don't think this drug is for her. The other steriods didn't work eather. My sister is 37 years old. and in bad shape becouse of this disease . if there is anyone out there with this and is having any luck please e mail me, @ wizzard772@gmail.com