((((((((((((Savanahs))))))))))) I'm sorry you feel this chat room is excluding rather than benefiting people. I know a lot of people who argue about the drinking age being 21 as well.

I don't think it's a matter of intelligence at all. I have a 19 year old who is extremely intelligent. But there are still things I would feel more comfortable talking about with someone older.

The main chat room is designed so that any age can go there. I don't think that having a 21+ chat room on this huge site will prevent anyone from making the friendships they desire or from chatting with people they want to chat with anymore than having a teen room does.

If it helps, being that you are new here... there is a way to private message (pm) someone on here. If anyone wants to chat with someone, maybe they can send a pm and ask. I've been here a while and I think generally speaking, people on this site want to support each other.

Best of luck to you on your journey