> feel free to read my most recent thread.

I did. Thanks. I am impressed at how good a job you seem to be doing of trying to understand what is going on between your T and you. I find that very, very difficult: understanding what is really going on, what is my part and what the therapist's.

> What are you confused about?

I think I will leave that alone for a while, until maybe some other people respond to my question. Actually it happens often, and there is more than one subject (on the surface) that is involved. Maybe I will try to be more specific later. I also suspect that when I get more specific people here will not understand why I get confused over such "small" things...