If you know what you want from a situation and you are single...then you should never feel ashamed to go for it. Before I met my DH.. I had casual sex when I was single. You just go with your boundaries and comfort level..of course the whole Internet thing now does add a bigger risk..I don't get it..I find it freaky and not in the deaky way. .. thankfully I don't have to even think about that scene being that I have been happily married now for yrs

I have always had very clear understanding of my values,and boundaries re: sex and single vs in a,relationship.. the way I see it is if you are single then you are free to do as you please..but once you commit to another in anyway (meaning besides "serious longterm") even when I was in high school if a boy asked me to be his girlfriend...even if it only lasted a week..then I did not think about or Perdue any one else. Ever. That's why I have a hard time understanding why ppl cheat.. if you want to sleep around be single. If you want to be with someone then just be with them..and if you find you no longer want that person or find yourself wanting another..then don't cheat..just be grown up enough to break things off with your SO before starting up with another person. Simple as 123 ABC.