Yeah, I currently also have conflicting sexual feelings - on one hand, I like girls in romantic and friendly way, but a thought of sexual contact makes me feel like I might hurt them or something like that. And I have really narrow same sex attraction to specific looks of people with whom I would not want long lasting relationships because of various "incompatibilities" and also painful emotions and memories which always overwhelm me when thinking about sex with them.

So, these things get really complicated sometimes. Sometimes psychotherapy or the right person might help.