Due to lifelong depression I know I see things in a twisted way so here's the deal.We had our 25th. wedding anniversary recently,all my wife gave me was a card.We're not rich but we're not broke either,money could'nt be an excuse.A while back when I turned 50 she got me nothing,no card no cake no gift.I've always bought her nice gifts even when we were broke.My question is this,does she only want me here because of our grade school age daughter?Do other women not give gifts on special occasions?This and my birthday were very disappointing times that should have been celabrations.What do you all think.