Hi and welcome to PC. Thats gotta be rough not getting anything from your wife. I'm not married but I'm in a committed relationship. My boyfriend just had his birthday and I'm flat broke, so I made him something. I don't know why your wife wouldn't have gotten anything....I'd suggest having an open communication about it. I know if I do something to dissapoint my boyfriend, I want to know so I can fix it. Maybe you could just say honey, it kind of hurt my feelings that you didn't get me anything for my birthday or our anniversary. See what she has to say. It might be a good time to talk things over. I've learned that my boyfriend and I have to have talks every so often, just so we both know where the other one is at in the relationship.