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Originally Posted by stolemyheart87
Why is it, at least for me, that all the guys I have ever dated or plan to date, they always say "My ex cheated on me." why is this always the case? What do these guys do to cause their girlfriends to go off and cheat to begin with? I don't get it.
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Is it
really all the guys, or is that a hyperbole? In any case, it happens either because they have very questionable taste in women/guys, or ... nope, that's it.

Just my opinonion, anyways. I have a near-zero tolerance for cheating. I value loyality, honor, respect, and love.
Thinking about it, I suppose there are a few other reasons. Someone may be in an abusive relationship, for example, and not know how to "get away" then get close to someone else.
Another situation might be a drunken antic, but I honestly have been drunk plenty of times and never jumped another woman, or
any woman for that matter. I guess some people are less in control when intoxicated? I'unno.

Frankly, I try not to put myself in such a situation in the first place; in other words, not drink with someone with whom I have a mutual attraction that could result in an oopsiekiss or worse.
The only other thing I can think of is a relationship with terrible communication and a complete misalignment of desires and goals, causing both people to be with each other, despite not really caring about or putting much of anything into it.
Beyond that, I dunno.
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Originally Posted by Mattmx
Anyone saying that is looking for sympathy.
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It could also be that they're trying to indicate distrust and/or fear of a repeat scenario.
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