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Originally Posted by stopdog
I prefer angry to other things. I do think email/texting tend to lend themselves to a sense of immediacy on the part of the sender which may not be shared by the recipient.
I actually prefer hard letters in such circumstances. I can send the information away from me with no concerns of whether the woman will respond or not and no worries about how slow or inadequate the response will probably be. By using hard mail - it takes that part out of the equation. And it keeps most of the control back with me.
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I can work with angry better too. When we discussed boundaries she said email is ok but don't expect a reply in any time scale. Really? I'd expect a reply within 24 hours. I wish she would be straight up and say no contact at all instead of p*****g me off.
Her boundaries are sloppy I'm realising.
You will either reply or you won't...it's that simple.
I want to tell her to stick her next appt where the sun doesn't shine so I can get back some of the control she's taken away but I know I can't leave it like this because it will eat away at me!!